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Let loose and get in the mood with Sex Role Play

It will be difficult for you to enjoy yourselves if you feel tense or silly, so before you call, do whatever you need to do to get yourself comfortable and feeling sexy.

Dirty Talk
  • Let loose: Lie in bed for a while, browse the internet, have a glass of wine, jog on the spot, do a silly song and dance in front of the mirror — anything that will allow you to release the tension from your body.
  • Get in the mood: Setting up a sexy atmosphere can help put you in the right frame of mind, so consider doing whatever you’d do to prepare for any other kind of sex. Here are some ideas:

Everyone has an idea of what a professional phone sex call is like. "Hi sexy, I've been waiting for you all night...." as the Visa bill is charged up at $2.99 per minute. What exactly is the cost/benefit of all that heavy breathing and visa authorizations?

Well, having been in the industry for 4 years, having participated in over 5,000 phone sex calls, I have an opinion. Read on if you are curious - I already know you think you have the answer. So did I, 4 years ago. I was wrong.

First, lets look at phone sex itself. This is the safest and most convenient kind of sex. It can last as long as you want, or be over in less than 2 minutes, no strings attached. Callers can remain anonymous, can explore fantasies they wouldn't dare admit to, and confess anything to a sympathetic ear. They can ask for advice about personal situations. Callers can experiment with outlandish fetishes without committing to anything, or catching anything! I could go on and on, suffice it to say phone sex is easy, secretive, and has no real restrictions on what is 'allowed'.

What about married men calling for phone sex on their way home from work, or during Thursday Ladies Night Outs? What about them? Are they cheating? No, Phone sex is not cheating. Phone sex is entertainment, and it is much better entertainment than TV or Porn - its interactive and a lot more 'effective'.

Are they perverted? They may be, but not because of the phone sex call. Millions of men are happy in their 'vanilla' relationships, loving and caring for their partners. Some of those men secretly crave some 'sexual spice' but would never risk offending their partner with their desires. Some men are ashamed of their fantasies. Some just don't know exactly what it is they are sexually looking for. There are deep rooted questions, "Am I gay?" "Is BDSM for me?" "Crossdressing?" These kinky fantasies just don't go away, so the man either quietly keeps them bottled up inside,until he withdraws from the 'vanilla' relationship and seeks a spicy live partner. Or, on a safer note, calls up a phone sex service and in 15 minutes relieves the craving and gets back to his happy vanilla self.

Are phone sex callers looking for relationships with the phone sex women? No. The only kind of relationship they want is to find someone nice to listen to who can quickly get at the 'itch', who doesn't rob them, and has a great imagination. Its about the same way women feel about a great hair stylist - someone who just knows what she wants, will style her hair beautifully, taking risks now and then, and not charge too much.

Is phone sex therapy? Yes. Think about it, there is a friendly ear paid to listen and encourage conversation, without any competing 'issues' to distract from the conversation. Women have girlfriends for support and listening. Men don't have that same kind of luxury. During a phone sex call, many men talk through stressful events of the day. Sometimes they ask for feedback and opinions, sometimes they don't. Besides the fact that 'sex' is a great stress relief, the actual conversation relieves stress and refreshes the mind and body.

The conversations are what I believe wives are jealous of, and that is where the 'cheating' accusation comes in. Wives want their husbands to talk to them, not some stranger. Of course, that is what makes relationship strong and healthy. However, how many wives will LISTEN as well as a phone sex operator? How many women encourage their men to speak on ANY topic, wearing and doing anything he pleases, agreeing to play along with the fantasy, and not change the topic? I know that if more wives and girlfriends could actually do that, there would be a lot less phone sex calls made.

Phone sex is not cheating.

Phone Sex - The Dangers of Phone Sex For Teenagers in a New Era of Technology

Sex Talk

Here's a SEX SECRET that most men have no idea about:

  • Phone Sex is INCREDIBLY exciting for a woman

Unfortunately, most men are intimidated by it and have no idea how to give their women phone sex the right way.

You are about to discover "The Art Of Phone Sex" and how to use it to give your woman orgasms that blow her mind...

Before we get into how to use the phone for sex, let me just say that it is a wonderful option to use with your woman when you are away from each other for an extended period of time. When you know how to use it the right way, you'll be able to give your woman SEXUAL PLEASURE in a way that you will not believe until you try it.

To hear your woman SCREAM YOUR NAME down the phone as she has a powerful orgasm is surely one of the most rewarding experiences a man can ever have. Shame most men are too scared to give their women phone sex the right way.

I hope you are "man enough" to master the art of phone sex.

Let me start off by saying that most men have unrealistic expectations about phone sex. They expect their women to narrate fantasies to them and do 50% of the talking.

This is NOT going to happen.

That is the first rule of phone sex - you (as the man), must do 95% of the talking and you must lead your woman (just like you would in real life when you are in the same room as her). If you don't have the courage to do that, STOP reading right now.

Next, you must understand that whilst on the phone you only have one tool - YOUR VOICE.

You cannot touch, taste, smell or see your woman whilst on the phone. This means that you must talk almost non-stop. And aside from the initial few minutes where you are "setting the scene", your talk must be of the "dirty" kind.

Here is how to do PHONE SEX the right way:

1. Make sure you are somewhere quiet where you will not get disturbed.

2. Call your woman and establish whether or not the time is right for phone sex. Do not mention phone sex, simply ask her where she is and if she replies that she is at home (or in a hotel room) - the time is right.

3. Use this line to get things started because it works every time:

"Darling, I really miss you and if I was with you right now I'd hold you so close and gently kiss the side of your neck"

At this point your woman will softly sigh. They always do. Always.

4. Now it is your job to build things up. Keep it romantic for a while - tell her how you'd kiss her body all over and touch every inch of her skin.

5. Then, describe to her in detail how you'd give her oral sex or penetrative sex.

Do it with authority, confidence and believability and usually within 30 minutes you will have your woman SCREAMING down the phone as she has a powerful orgasm.

Yes, she will have rubbed her clitoris as you were talking her through the experience - but make no mistake about it, it will be your DIRTY TALK that has the most powerful effect on her and drives her to have an ORGASM.

Phone sex really is an underused sexual tool. Try it out with your woman and prepare to be amazed by how much she loves it.

One final thing to be aware of is that phone sex tends to work best when you are already giving your woman great sex when you are with her and she is used to you talking dirty to her.

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Once you have your partner on the phone, take things at a speed you’re both comfortable with. There’s no “correct” way to have phone sex.

If it helps you relax, spend a few minutes chatting before you get started… just don’t let yourselves get distracted from your sexy goal. A low, soft tone of voice or heavy breathing can help set the mood, but don’t force it if doing so is unnatural for you: speaking and breathing comfortably in your normal tone of voice will be sexier than an awkwardly forced attempt at sounding sexy.

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